Dear
Unrequainted Love in Athens, Greece,
My dear you definitely have a
problem on your hands, but we must remember that every problem has a solution;
we just have to dig deep and find it. So you said that this man you’re in love
with is being forced to marry your best friend who he is actually in love with
but she doesn't love him back right? I would say that a friendship is
definitely as important if not more important than a love affair. You have to
remember that she is facing execution if she doesn't marry him. So I don’t think
that you have the right to be mad at her. Try putting yourself into her shoes;
what would you do? So, as far as your friend goes I would just say be as good
of a friend as you can be; support her, and help her get through this and make
a decision that she is comfortable with. She has feelings and opinions in this
matter too. But, if a moment arrives that you could tell her how you feel about
this guy, take it. Let her know how you feel and be honest about it. Honesty
is key.
As far as this guy goes; have you
told him how you feel? Sometimes that can make a world of difference. You need
to show him your personality and maybe he’ll realize what he’s missing. I know
how you feel with this problem, I honestly do. Guys don’t see other girls when
they are deeply in love with another girl like this guy is. If you really love
this guy like you say you do, I think that you need to once again be honest and
tell him how you feel. Whether it all will work out the way you want it to or
not is another story, but we will always hope for the best. I think that if he
begins to like you back you could find a way to make everything work out. Love
will do that. It will find a way even in the deepest depths of a dark situation and
love will stay strong even if you don’t end up being able to be together. Sometimes we don’t
get everything that we hope for and dream of, but that never means that we
should in fact stop hoping and dreaming. I think that you need to listen to
your heart. Things will work out if you put your best foot forward and reach
for the stars. Promise me that you will follow your dreams of being with this
guy. Remember to never leave yourself asking “what if.”
Sincerely,
Abby
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